I don’t know if Mr Bashir follows any religion or ideology or not, but it may be within his culture to have one’s wife in total subservience & humility and knock her into shape if she rebels against his demands, but in this country (UK) mistreatment such as this is against the law of the land-or rather is supposed to be. And i feel certain that if Mr Bashir was an indigenous /native Briton who had referred to Pakistani females as “slags” as he -as a Pakistani- referred to English women, this one aspect alone would be viral by now and there would be a right old merry hoo-hah with Mr Bashir being labelled as a “RACIST” & “XENOPHOBIC”
Mustafa Bashir walked free after a judge said he was “not convinced” the victim was vulnerable
n another terrifying meltdown, Bashir who plays for a local cricket league in Oldham, Greater Manchester, forced his wife to take tablets and drink bleach and told her to kill herself during a row over him going on a cricket tour to Holland.
Miss Karim eventually went to police and said: ‘I now feel strong enough to report this to the police. I did fear for my life, he told me he was going to kill me.”
In a statement she added: “Before I met Mustafa Bashir I was a confident, active and humorous person. I looked after myself and liked dressing up.
“I spent money on myself and enjoyed going shopping. I felt the future was bright. I was in good mental health and felt strong. After the abuse my confidence was very low and I hid myself away from family and friends.
“He didn’t like me socialising and I couldn’t accept my friends requests to go out. When she was at university she described herself as not being able to complete the work at home. Once we split it took months for me to get my self belief back and I am not back to the person I was before.
Mustafa Bashir is now set to join Leicestershire as a professional player
He told Bashir: “This relationship started well but you began controlling her and how she spent her money.
“You told her how to spend her money and you tried to turn her against her family who you regularly insulted. She would buy clothes that were of a western style which you disapproved of and called her a slag and said her friends were ‘English slag girls.’
But I am not convinced she was a vulnerable person. Sometimes women who moved her from their country become trapped in a relationship where they lose their support network of family and friends and cannot speak the language.
“This is not the case her. She is plainly an intelligent woman with a network of friends and did go on to graduate university with a 2:1 and a masters – although this has had an ongoing affect on her. She had difficult trusting people now, especially men.”
In one meltdown the man forced his wife to take tablets and drink bleach
Prosecutor Roger Brown said: “The parties went back home where the argument continued. He grabbed her neck again, so much that she said it was hurting a lot and at one point he picked up a knife and said that he would kill himself and she begged him not to.
“He took her into the bathroom where he grabbed a bottle of bleach and he made her drink the bleach so she would kill herself. She spat that out as she was unable to swallow it. Then he gave her tablets from the house and told her to take them. She did but again she was unable to swallow them.
“He said to her “I want you to kill yourself.”
She left the bathroom and went into the living room where the defendant called her family to tell them they had an argument and that she was not obeying him. Her family urged her to obey him and told him that she would obey.
“She did take photos of her injuries to her neck and to her upper arm. When making her statement she said that he grabbed her neck very hard and she thought she was going to die. She was pulling at him trying to get him to stop but he was stronger and she couldn’t stop him. After that incident he left the house and she didn’t see him for some two days.”
The marriage continued but on New Year’s Eve 2014 the couple were at home when a row broke out about Miss Karim speaking on the phone in their living room.
Mr Brown added: “She describes the defendant as becoming angry after she had been on the phone for just over half an hour, and after the conversation finished he took the phone off her and said she couldn’t have it back and he wanted to search it and look at the messages.
“She said her friends weren’t saying anything bad but he began insulting her father called him a ‘dog’ and she replied with “you don’t have a dad that’s why you don’t know how to respect mine”.
“He became more angry and slapped her, and grabbed her hands and started bending her fingers back trying to break them. He slapped her so hard again that she fell on the floor and lost consciousness. The next thing she remembers is waking up on her bed, she went to get her phone but he was there.
She said to him: ‘it’s over please leave me alone’ but he called her a slag, and strangled her until she was struggling to breathe.
“He grabbed a cricket bat that was in the bedroom and her over the back with it. She recalls feeling a sharp pain.
“He said to her ‘If I hit you with this bat with my full power then you would be dead’. He went into the hall and she took the opportunity to call 999.”
In mitigation Bashir’s lawyer Hugh McKee said: ” He has continued to play professionally in a local cricket league but of some importance certainly to him is if he is allowed to keep his liberty he will be employed by Leicestershire as a professional.
“He was about to sign the contract when he was arrested.”
He said of the couple’s relationship.
“It had been going for some 10 years and during that time Mr Bashir was working in that time for long hours and having two jobs and she had no jobs. He says that he gave her money and got into debt to allow her to go on holiday with her friends.
He struggled and continues to struggle and to this day he hasn’t been able to give an explanation about what led him to do what he did.
“This was a relationship he wanted to keep alive but whatever she did or whatever he thought she was doing let him to lose his temper and to behave in the way described. He has continued to work, and he has a second job and potentially a very good job doing what he has always done – ie playing cricket.”